It seems Nigerian women are on husband killing feast. The situation is deteriorating with infidelity reported to be the biggest reason for this anomaly.
Infidelity otherwise known as cheating is a violation of a couple’s assumed or stated contract regarding emotional and/or sexual exclusivity. Sadly, cheating has become epic in Nigeria especially amongst men.
When a married man starts exchanging correspondence with side chicks even without the actual act, he already committed the act. At this point, you are probably sexually fantasizing about your side chick.
The act of infidelity doesn’t just happen. It is usually processed over time. This kind of situation does not end well especially if you have a wife who is so much obsessed with you and jealous. The anger of a jealous woman can tear a man into pieces. This is why every man must be committed and faithful to their wives.
Just today a Facebook friend posted this on his timeline: “My neighbor was stabbed by his wife, Rest in peace, best man…we do crack jokes every day if we come back from work….chioo I will see you no more….”
After findings, it was gathered that the man who was in his mid-forties had been cheating on his wife. The lady regretted to have stabbed her husband to death and was eventually arrested by the police.
Men must be careful and stop playing with the emotions of women. The anger of a woman is like a roaring lion. It doesn’t end well. If as a married man you haven’t been showering your wife with adequate love, here are some of the things you need to start doing:
Love Your Wife Completely
Here is the magic – if you have been loving your wife without reservation, let’s say you cheated and she finds out. She would be shocked and dumbfounded instead of being angry. She wouldn’t believe you could do such to her because you always show her that love.
A woman who stabs her husband for cheating is probably not getting the love and happiness she expects in the marriage. Love changes that narrative even if she finds out that the husband cheated on her. She will only be curious and wonder why her loving husband committed the act. The last option that comes into her mind is killing her husband. It is not just possible.
Respect and Value Your Wife
Treat your wife with respect and show her that she is valuable or even indispensable. These virtues without a doubt win the heart of women because they are emotional beings.
Honestly, men must do all they can to make their wives happy to avoid being stabbed. Funny right? Your wife will only be in shock that her husband who shows her love, respect actually cheated on her.
No woman who is valued, cherished and loved in her right senses will think of killing her husband if he cheats. Not possible!