How has it been for some women who hardly understands that there are moments when things go the wrong way financially? It has been a serious issue for men because it’s difficult to cope with such families at the moment.
It’s been over three weeks since the lockdown in Nigeria due to the coronavirus pandemic. Almost everybody is at home, spending some quality time with family members. For some people, it has not been quality time.
Grassroots.ng gathered that some family in some hinterlands of Lagos have not been finding this lockdown period funny as they struggle to provide for the home. Some wives are losing it already, the nagging display and checking of their husbands’ phone had begun.
Domestic violence has been on the increase since the lockdown. If there are no basic essential ingredients in marriages this period, the divorce rate is likely to increase.
The average Nigerian husband is bedeviled with many challenges. That simply means that men are constantly thinking of how to provide for the family. So, this should be the least period when wives should start unleashing disgusting characters.
However, below are some tips for women to make sure that the lockdown period does not end in violence.
- Show Him Respect
- Show Interest in His Hobbies
- Have Consistent Sex
- Do Something Unexpected for Him
- Be the Best Version of Yourself
- Let Things Go
- Take Care of Him
- Don’t Nag
- Trust Him
- Call Him Out When He Does Something Wrong
- Stop Trying to Change Him
- Send Him Sexy and Flirty Texts
- Be Understanding
- Make a Comfortable Home
- Cook for Him
- Take Care of Yourself
- Tell Him You Love Him
- Lower Your Expectations
- Lighten Up
- If Something’s Bad, Try to Make It Better