Romance
LIFE STORY: Some girls are as cheap as pure water!


From GrassRoots.ng Reader
Dear everyone, I just feel the need to share this story so my fellow men can be wiser.
I met my girlfriend in the most unusual way. I was on my way back to my hostel one night after night class, when a girl who was walking in front of me screamed in pains and fell down. I rushed to the spot and helped her to her feet.
‘What is it? I asked her
‘Something bit me’, she cried. ‘Please help me’
Instinct told me it might be a snake. Our school was well known for snakes, especially dangerous specie of viper called ‘echieteka’ (tomorrow is too far). I flashed my reading torch immediately and saw a viper coiled just very close to my feet waiting to deliver another killing bite. I leaped into the air, scampered to a safe distance, picked a stone and killed it. I went back to help the girl only to discover that she was already unconscious.
The spot where she was bitten was swollen so I took off my shirt, tied it above the spot, cut open the place and began to suck blood from the wound. While I was doing that, the patrol team of the security department arrived at the scene.
At first, they thought I wanted to rape her but when I explained what happened to them, they took us both in their vehicle and drove us straight to the medical centre where she was revived and given urgent medical attention.
The doctor explained that she would have died if it were not for the first aid treatment I had given to her. That was how Joyce and I got close. She was very grateful to me for saving her life and finally we ended up as lovers.
Joyce was my first love; we were crazy about each other. She always introduced me to her friends as her guardian angel. But along the line, I began to suspect she was sleeping with someone else.
I told Ogonna my best friend about it. But he simply laughed.
‘Oh boy, you are just disturbing yourself unnecessarily. That girl loves you, after all you did for her, I don’t think she will have the heart to sleep with someone else.
“I don’t trust girls”, I replied. They make look responsible but may be as cheap as pure water.
Ogonna laughed even harder. But I was serious. “Look guy, I want you to do me a favour. I want you to find out if she’s the easy type.”
‘How?’
‘I want you to toast the babe and see if she will fall for you”
‘He whistled in amazement, “You want me to toast your babe? Hmmm..
‘Just do it please’. I begged.
He tried it the first time and came back and told me it didn’t work. I told him to try again. This time he didn’t give me any feedback. One day, I paid her a visit only to find ogonna’s car parked in front of her apartment. I was curious to know what he was doing there. I knew the compound very well so I crept behind her bedroom window.
It was shut and there was no way I could see what was going on inside the room, but I could hear their discussion. Ogonna told her that he was madly in love with her and would want her as his lover.
‘But I have told you many times, we can be friends but not lovers. Your best friend is my lover and you know that.
Ogonna hissed, ‘Forget him, that guy is not serious about you. I’ve been coming all these while, can’t you see that I love you? Just give me a chance and I will prove my love to you. The money I sent you yesterday is just the beginning. I will give you double now if you say yes.
Then there was silence. I put my ears to the window, but heard nothing. Then suddenly, Joyce screamed. “You are so big below the belt!”
Ogonna chuckled. My fist tightened involuntarily by my side.
I began to hear muffled groans; I needed nobody to tell me what was happening. I felt so ashamed and betrayed. I went to my friend’s car, sat on the bonnet and waited for them to finish having their fun. An hour later, the front door opened and both of them came out.
They did not see me at first. They stood by the door and kissed passionately for a while. By then, tears were racing down my eyes.
It was when they disengaged from each other’s embrace that they saw me. They were shocked. For sometime I looked at them and they looked at me. The shame of what they did overcame them and before I could utter a word, they went back into the house and shut the door. I turned and left but I could not sleep. I had to go back to Joyce’s house.
She was not expecting to see me. She froze when she saw me. Before I could speak, she fell down on her knees and began to beg me for forgiveness. She promised that such a thing would never happen again.
Stupid me I believed her, and we made up in bed.
Two days later, I saw her at a fast food joint with Ogonna. That was when it became obvious to me that I was fighting a lost battle. I have not been able to get over her loss. I am heart-broken, that is my love story.
…Emeka Kay (not real name) writes from Imo


The Guild of Corporate Online Publishers (GOCOP) has commiserated with its member, Mr. Olatunde Abatan, publisher of Newdawn Online, over the passing of his beloved wife, Mrs. Desola Amoke Latifat Abatan (née Adewunmi).
Mrs. Abatan died on Tuesday, February 18, 2025, after a brief illness.
A press statement by the publicity secretary, GOCOP, Ogbuefi Remmy Nweke, quoted the guild leadership in a condolence message, signed by the President, Ms Maureen Chigbo and Secretary-General, Mr. Olumide Iyanda, said the loss was not only to her immediate family, but to the online publishing community.
“On behalf of the entire GOCOP family, we extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. The loss of a life partner is an indescribable pain, and we can only imagine the depth of your grief,” part of the condolence message read.
The guild prayed for the repose of her soul and asked God to grant her family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
GOCOP further assured Mr. Abatan of members’ prayers and support during this trying period.
Romance
ESET Responds to EFCC’s Arrest of 792 Cryptocurrency Fraud Suspects in Lagos


ESET, a global leader in digital security, has provided insights on the rising threat of online scams.
In a significant operation earlier in the week, Nigeria’s anti-graft agency, the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), conducted a large-scale raid on the Big Leaf Building in Lagos, identified as a key hub for fraudulent activities.
According to EFCC’s account, 792 individuals were arrested during the operation, including 148 Chinese and 40 Filipino nationals, all suspected of involvement in a global fraud network.
The suspects are alleged to have operated a complex scam ring that deceived victims through fraudulent romance offers and cryptocurrency investment schemes.
The Big Leaf Building served as the central location for a call center operation, primarily targeting individuals from the Americas and Europe.
The Nigerian accomplices-initiated contact with victims, while foreign nationals managed the deceptive schemes, coercing victims into transferring funds.
During the raid, the EFCC seized computers, mobile phones, and vehicles. Authorities are now collaborating with international law enforcement agencies to investigate potential connections to larger organized crime syndicates.
This operation represents a significant step in combatting the escalating threat of online fraud and transnational criminal activity.
In a media briefing held on Monday, December 16th, 2024, at the EFCC Lagos office, Wilson Uwujaren, the director of Public Affairs, revealed that Nigerian accomplices were recruited to target victims through phishing campaigns, utilizing platforms such as WhatsApp, Instagram, and Telegram.
Reacting to the development, Mr. Olufemi Ake, ESET’s managing director for West Africa, emphasized that fraudsters often use dating sites and social media to assume false identities, making it increasingly difficult to detect their deceptive tactics.
These criminals frequently employ psychological manipulation and advanced artificial intelligence to build trust with their victims, further complicating efforts to catch them.
Ake also noted that many of the Nigerian suspects involved in these fraudulent activities were unaware of the true identity of their employers, as they did not receive official letters of appointment or payments from corporate accounts.
This, he argued, highlights the need for employees to regularly vet their employers’ operations to avoid being ensnared in fraudulent schemes.
“As online criminals become more skilled at exploiting digital platforms, Ake advised individuals to remain cautious and informed to protect themselves from falling prey to increasingly sophisticated fraud tactics”, he said.
He recommended verifying identities through trusted channels, being skeptical of unsolicited investment opportunities, especially those involving cryptocurrencies, and ensuring that their devices are equipped with up-to-date cybersecurity applications. “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is,” Olufemi Ake concluded.


Having a healthy looking skin is a priceless thing to possess for everyone be you a male, or a female.
And scientifically it is required of us to clean our pores so that those dead cells can be removed and a more beautiful skin can be reborn.
Although so many people think that a lot of money has to be spent on actually actualizing that, well it’s not totally true.
Because with the “do it yourself” hacks, that’s the DIY hacks, you can spend just a little money in getting the right ingredients you need to put together what you need for a healthy and beautiful skin instead of giving out a huge sum to purchase one.
So here, I’ll be showing you how to make your own glow scrub from this simple ingredients.
INGREDIENTS
- Sea salt (for a less sensitive skin) or Sugar(for sensitive skins)
1 cup is okay.
- Essential oil like (almond oil, olive oil, or any essential oil of your choice).
12 drops or enough to saturate your salt or sugar quantity.
- Vitamin E
2 to 4 drops.
- Any scent supplement of your choice (which is very optional).
Just enough drops to your taste.
METHOD
Note that if you have a very soft and sensitive skin, then you might just have to stick to using sugar instead of the sea salt. And if not, use the sea salt.
- Pour your salt or sugar into a clean bowl.
- Add the drops of your essential oil and start mixing.
- Add your vitamin E and mix
- Add your scent supplement and mix
By now it will be in a moist form.
Fill it into an airtight container and keep ready for use.
HOW IT’S USED.
Now before use, make sure to soak or moist your whole body with water, then get the amount of scrub you need into your palm and start scrubbing all over your body. Keep scrubbing till the particles are dissolved and you feel a smoother skin.
Now you can rinse it off and use your soap to finish bathing.
Do this 3 times a week as it is expected to exfoliate atleast thrice a week.
So try this and give your skin a more radiating look at a more affordable and easy way.
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