My nine relationship advice

Relationship is a mixture of bile and honey depending on the way you want it to be. Many people venture into relationships without understanding certain parameters.

I have outlined my nine relationship advice for anybody who is already in a relationship or considering to venture into one.

• Never date your ex,(s) he became your ex for a reason. Your ex belongs to your past, move on.

• There is a distinct difference between dating for love and dating for sex. Always understand the main reason why you’re venturing into a relationship.

• Never hope on marrying someone when almost 70% of their family members don’t like you. The probability of the marriage not lasting is very high and you’re probably not going to enjoy the relationship.

• Never fall in love when you are lonely, the consequences are going to be a harsh one.
• As long as it is still a relationship, never reveal your full potential or secrets to whoever you are dating.

• Your personal development should come first before relationships. People who you are in relationships with can still leave you but you can never leave yourself, meaning never compromise your adventures and dreams for anyone.

• Avoid relationships that seems to be too good to be true at the beginning. When the other person is rushing things too fast, don’t get carried away with romance and sex. Slow down and be careful because this is how people get hooked on to narcissistic partners.

• Never date someone that gives commands and doesn’t respect you. The probability of emotional abuse is very high.

• Never date anybody that doesn’t know how to give but knows only how to take.

• Never date anyone with the mindset of changing their character, attitude, and behaviors. Remember, you can never raise an adult!