Romance
How I slept with 16 men in a day – Confession of a retired sex worker
Article by Alice Ginika Simeon


This is the story of Susan, A young woman from Bayelsa who was found working in the streets of Lagos as a prostitute.
The now retired sex worker who traded her body in exchange for money for 15 years disclosed how she got into prostitution at an early age of 17.
She started with one man a day till she transcended into sleeping with 12 to 16 men in a day.
According to her, she said that became her life so that was her job description, and she was good at it.
Susan said she never knew her dad as a child because he wasn’t in the picture. And her mum died when she was 12 years old, So she was left at the mercy of her aunt who was the only family she knew.
” When my mother passed, I had to go stay with her elder sister who was the only family I knew then. She was not welcoming as she made everyday a living hell for me. At the age of 12, I was made to wash her and her children’s clothes including her husband, and if I don’t wash it well, I had to start all over till she was satisfied with it. E no easy ooo because most times I had to do all that on an empty stomach.
And as if that wasn’t enough, her children were always bullying me.
Then to top it all, when I turned 13, her husband began assaulting me sexually. He raped me so many times till I was 15.
And no matter how hard I tried to tell my Aunty, she never believed me. Rather she’d threaten me to not tell anyone about it or she’ll send me packing.
I wasn’t going to school because she said I would only waste her money.
So when I turned 17, I couldn’t take it anymore and I had to run from her house.
I met a woman who was willing to take me in but only if I’d agree to work for her.
I didn’t ask her which type of job as I gladly accepted the offer.
The next day, she called me to go get dressed as we will be having visitors. She handed me some skimpy dress and demanded I put them on.
At first it was strange seeing some girls also living there at the time.
Well, I couldn’t run from there because I thought it was better than my Aunty’s house after all.
And that was how I was introduced into prostitution which started with one man a day.
But as time went by, the number of men I had to sleep with increased because the woman who used us to run her motel made it difficult to get a considerable amount of money as pay from her.
And with the money I made, I was able to sit for WAEC, because I really wanted to go to school, and not because I planned living another life from prostitution. I also wrote jamb and I was able to enroll in an open University. Funny enough, I was popularly known as a runs girl in my area.
So In order to cater for my school and personal needs, I had to sleep with more men in a day because the woman instigated a rule that the more men you sleep with in a day, will determine the amount of money you make.
That was the street life, so I had to learn to survive in it and even became a professional at it.
In a matter of few years, I was already sleeping with as much as 16 men a day.
That was the life for me for 15 years on the street, that was the only job I was very familiar with. Not because it was the right job, but because that was the job I became so good at, until I met a man who became so much interested in me.
Funny enough he came in as a customer the first time, but what surprised me was that he never tried to sleep with me.
He said he only wanted to buy my time. So he’ll pay me all the amount that I could have made from 16 men in a day, and we will gist till he was ready to leave. I was 32 at the time.
It continued like that for a month till he told me he was interested in marrying me.
And today I am happily married to him and blessed with 2 kids, a boy and a girl.
That was how I was saved from prostitution”
That is the story of Susan, an ex sex worker.
She said she is now living the best life and her only regret is that, she never believed in herself enough to try a better route. But she is happy that she is making amends now.


The Guild of Corporate Online Publishers (GOCOP) has commiserated with its member, Mr. Olatunde Abatan, publisher of Newdawn Online, over the passing of his beloved wife, Mrs. Desola Amoke Latifat Abatan (née Adewunmi).
Mrs. Abatan died on Tuesday, February 18, 2025, after a brief illness.
A press statement by the publicity secretary, GOCOP, Ogbuefi Remmy Nweke, quoted the guild leadership in a condolence message, signed by the President, Ms Maureen Chigbo and Secretary-General, Mr. Olumide Iyanda, said the loss was not only to her immediate family, but to the online publishing community.
“On behalf of the entire GOCOP family, we extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. The loss of a life partner is an indescribable pain, and we can only imagine the depth of your grief,” part of the condolence message read.
The guild prayed for the repose of her soul and asked God to grant her family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
GOCOP further assured Mr. Abatan of members’ prayers and support during this trying period.
Romance
ESET Responds to EFCC’s Arrest of 792 Cryptocurrency Fraud Suspects in Lagos


ESET, a global leader in digital security, has provided insights on the rising threat of online scams.
In a significant operation earlier in the week, Nigeria’s anti-graft agency, the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), conducted a large-scale raid on the Big Leaf Building in Lagos, identified as a key hub for fraudulent activities.
According to EFCC’s account, 792 individuals were arrested during the operation, including 148 Chinese and 40 Filipino nationals, all suspected of involvement in a global fraud network.
The suspects are alleged to have operated a complex scam ring that deceived victims through fraudulent romance offers and cryptocurrency investment schemes.
The Big Leaf Building served as the central location for a call center operation, primarily targeting individuals from the Americas and Europe.
The Nigerian accomplices-initiated contact with victims, while foreign nationals managed the deceptive schemes, coercing victims into transferring funds.
During the raid, the EFCC seized computers, mobile phones, and vehicles. Authorities are now collaborating with international law enforcement agencies to investigate potential connections to larger organized crime syndicates.
This operation represents a significant step in combatting the escalating threat of online fraud and transnational criminal activity.
In a media briefing held on Monday, December 16th, 2024, at the EFCC Lagos office, Wilson Uwujaren, the director of Public Affairs, revealed that Nigerian accomplices were recruited to target victims through phishing campaigns, utilizing platforms such as WhatsApp, Instagram, and Telegram.
Reacting to the development, Mr. Olufemi Ake, ESET’s managing director for West Africa, emphasized that fraudsters often use dating sites and social media to assume false identities, making it increasingly difficult to detect their deceptive tactics.
These criminals frequently employ psychological manipulation and advanced artificial intelligence to build trust with their victims, further complicating efforts to catch them.
Ake also noted that many of the Nigerian suspects involved in these fraudulent activities were unaware of the true identity of their employers, as they did not receive official letters of appointment or payments from corporate accounts.
This, he argued, highlights the need for employees to regularly vet their employers’ operations to avoid being ensnared in fraudulent schemes.
“As online criminals become more skilled at exploiting digital platforms, Ake advised individuals to remain cautious and informed to protect themselves from falling prey to increasingly sophisticated fraud tactics”, he said.
He recommended verifying identities through trusted channels, being skeptical of unsolicited investment opportunities, especially those involving cryptocurrencies, and ensuring that their devices are equipped with up-to-date cybersecurity applications. “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is,” Olufemi Ake concluded.


Having a healthy looking skin is a priceless thing to possess for everyone be you a male, or a female.
And scientifically it is required of us to clean our pores so that those dead cells can be removed and a more beautiful skin can be reborn.
Although so many people think that a lot of money has to be spent on actually actualizing that, well it’s not totally true.
Because with the “do it yourself” hacks, that’s the DIY hacks, you can spend just a little money in getting the right ingredients you need to put together what you need for a healthy and beautiful skin instead of giving out a huge sum to purchase one.
So here, I’ll be showing you how to make your own glow scrub from this simple ingredients.
INGREDIENTS
- Sea salt (for a less sensitive skin) or Sugar(for sensitive skins)
1 cup is okay.
- Essential oil like (almond oil, olive oil, or any essential oil of your choice).
12 drops or enough to saturate your salt or sugar quantity.
- Vitamin E
2 to 4 drops.
- Any scent supplement of your choice (which is very optional).
Just enough drops to your taste.
METHOD
Note that if you have a very soft and sensitive skin, then you might just have to stick to using sugar instead of the sea salt. And if not, use the sea salt.
- Pour your salt or sugar into a clean bowl.
- Add the drops of your essential oil and start mixing.
- Add your vitamin E and mix
- Add your scent supplement and mix
By now it will be in a moist form.
Fill it into an airtight container and keep ready for use.
HOW IT’S USED.
Now before use, make sure to soak or moist your whole body with water, then get the amount of scrub you need into your palm and start scrubbing all over your body. Keep scrubbing till the particles are dissolved and you feel a smoother skin.
Now you can rinse it off and use your soap to finish bathing.
Do this 3 times a week as it is expected to exfoliate atleast thrice a week.
So try this and give your skin a more radiating look at a more affordable and easy way.
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