Romance
Why I divorced my husband and married my gateman
Article by Alice Ginika Simeon


Wonders indeed never seize to end. Atleast that’s what a lot of people think in situations like this.
But I think you should hold your peace till you read the story about this woman who divorced her husband to marry her gateman.
Roseline is a 34 year old woman who got married to her husband at the age of 26. She said they were a very happy couple until lots of things started happening in their family.
According to her, she said her and her husband who was a serious business man agreed not to have children for 3 years first as her husband wanted to focus more on building his company to a certain level before they’d start having kids.
She was a banker at the time, so she agreed and went on with the plan.
But after their 3 years agreement, she reminded her husband that it was time for them to have kids, but he wasn’t so happy about it. Instead he asked that they should wait for an additional one year. At this point she wasn’t pleased to hear it because she didn’t want to go through with the pills and family planning she’s been on. But she decided to be a patient and an understanding wife, so she agreed again.
By now her in-laws and her own family had already started asking questions which her husband made it clear to them that they weren’t ready yet.
After the one additional year had passed, her husband was still adamant about them having children.
Well, she kept on persuading him for months until she stopped using the after pills and also stopped the family planning without her husband’s knowledge. But after a month of trying, she still wasn’t pregnant.
She had to go see a gynecologist who told her nothing was wrong with her, and that she was okay to make babies.
This led to her being distressed as many months passed and nothing happened.
One night, she decided to muster up courage to tell her husband that she had been out of the family planning for months without his knowledge because she really wanted kids and that was when all hell was let loose.
According to her, she said she had never seen that part of her husband in their almost 5 years of marriage.
That was the first time he beat her up that she had to run from the house to the gate.
She was scared to death but didn’t call any member of their family. She decided to wait outside till he cool of. But after a while, she got up to go inside and discovered that he locked her outside. After crying and knocking for hours, he still didn’t open the door.
She had to sleep outside that day, and to her surprise, their gateman had came to meet her with some pain killer, and wrappers to cover herself. He stayed out with her all through the night till the next morning without asking her one question. And that was how her and him became friends.
Because unlike what people regularly think of gatemen, this one was different. He was a young and fine man who was a graduate of civil engineering but couldn’t get a better job due to the situation of the country. And by the way, her husband was also paying him a good amount of money because of how wealthy he was.
By the next morning, she was able to go into the house because her husband came out and headed to work without saying a word to her.
That was where she became suspicious of her husband.
And she was determined to find out what it was.
She said after that incident, he stopped sleeping in the same bed with her not to talk of touching her. When she couldn’t bare it anymore, she had to tell her family what was going on.
She also told his family who decided to call for a meeting.
After the meeting he agreed to make amends but immediately everyone left, the matter worsened.
She said “That night, he beat me up again for calling our family in on what was going on.
He threatened to end our marriage if I repeated that and threw me outside the house again.
This time, I had to pass the night in the gateman’s quarters. And we both talked for long hours about life and many things.
The circle continued as my husband forced me into living like a flatmate with him instead of a wife.
Loneliness made me become very close to my gateman. And he was really a gentleman as he never stepped out of line or anything.
But I could see that it was just a matter of time before my marriage will completely crumble since my husband became a total stranger to me.
And just when I thought it was already messy, one day a woman came to the house with two children claiming they were for my husband, and she was actually legally married to him. Even though his family knew nothing about it.
She narrated how he left her in another state with the promise of coming back but never did for years.
So she’s been searching for him all these while and she finally got informations about his whereabouts.
He got home that day and met us all with shock written all over him, and that was when my fear was confirmed.
And to add to it all, his first wife said he had a vasectomy after their second child was born.
That explained why I couldn’t get pregnant after all my trials.
The shock was too much for me to handle, the pain was more that I could bare so I had to pack up and leave the house to my parents place.
After a week of interactions between our families, I decided to call it quit.
So I divorced him.
And as beautiful as it could get, my gateman also stopped working there as he got a better offer to work with an engineering firm.
He liked me and I already like him too because he really understood me and was there during my trying times with my ex-husband.
He kept in touch and soon we were hanging out a lot together.
I can gladly say I don’t regret meeting him, and he really prooved to be a gentleman as he never tried to take advantage of me all the while.
We got married One year after I divorced my husband.
So irrespective of the pains I went through in my first marriage, It was a happy ending for me”.
So that is the story of how Roseline got married to her gateman after divorcing her husband.


The Guild of Corporate Online Publishers (GOCOP) has commiserated with its member, Mr. Olatunde Abatan, publisher of Newdawn Online, over the passing of his beloved wife, Mrs. Desola Amoke Latifat Abatan (née Adewunmi).
Mrs. Abatan died on Tuesday, February 18, 2025, after a brief illness.
A press statement by the publicity secretary, GOCOP, Ogbuefi Remmy Nweke, quoted the guild leadership in a condolence message, signed by the President, Ms Maureen Chigbo and Secretary-General, Mr. Olumide Iyanda, said the loss was not only to her immediate family, but to the online publishing community.
“On behalf of the entire GOCOP family, we extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. The loss of a life partner is an indescribable pain, and we can only imagine the depth of your grief,” part of the condolence message read.
The guild prayed for the repose of her soul and asked God to grant her family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
GOCOP further assured Mr. Abatan of members’ prayers and support during this trying period.
Romance
ESET Responds to EFCC’s Arrest of 792 Cryptocurrency Fraud Suspects in Lagos


ESET, a global leader in digital security, has provided insights on the rising threat of online scams.
In a significant operation earlier in the week, Nigeria’s anti-graft agency, the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), conducted a large-scale raid on the Big Leaf Building in Lagos, identified as a key hub for fraudulent activities.
According to EFCC’s account, 792 individuals were arrested during the operation, including 148 Chinese and 40 Filipino nationals, all suspected of involvement in a global fraud network.
The suspects are alleged to have operated a complex scam ring that deceived victims through fraudulent romance offers and cryptocurrency investment schemes.
The Big Leaf Building served as the central location for a call center operation, primarily targeting individuals from the Americas and Europe.
The Nigerian accomplices-initiated contact with victims, while foreign nationals managed the deceptive schemes, coercing victims into transferring funds.
During the raid, the EFCC seized computers, mobile phones, and vehicles. Authorities are now collaborating with international law enforcement agencies to investigate potential connections to larger organized crime syndicates.
This operation represents a significant step in combatting the escalating threat of online fraud and transnational criminal activity.
In a media briefing held on Monday, December 16th, 2024, at the EFCC Lagos office, Wilson Uwujaren, the director of Public Affairs, revealed that Nigerian accomplices were recruited to target victims through phishing campaigns, utilizing platforms such as WhatsApp, Instagram, and Telegram.
Reacting to the development, Mr. Olufemi Ake, ESET’s managing director for West Africa, emphasized that fraudsters often use dating sites and social media to assume false identities, making it increasingly difficult to detect their deceptive tactics.
These criminals frequently employ psychological manipulation and advanced artificial intelligence to build trust with their victims, further complicating efforts to catch them.
Ake also noted that many of the Nigerian suspects involved in these fraudulent activities were unaware of the true identity of their employers, as they did not receive official letters of appointment or payments from corporate accounts.
This, he argued, highlights the need for employees to regularly vet their employers’ operations to avoid being ensnared in fraudulent schemes.
“As online criminals become more skilled at exploiting digital platforms, Ake advised individuals to remain cautious and informed to protect themselves from falling prey to increasingly sophisticated fraud tactics”, he said.
He recommended verifying identities through trusted channels, being skeptical of unsolicited investment opportunities, especially those involving cryptocurrencies, and ensuring that their devices are equipped with up-to-date cybersecurity applications. “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is,” Olufemi Ake concluded.


Having a healthy looking skin is a priceless thing to possess for everyone be you a male, or a female.
And scientifically it is required of us to clean our pores so that those dead cells can be removed and a more beautiful skin can be reborn.
Although so many people think that a lot of money has to be spent on actually actualizing that, well it’s not totally true.
Because with the “do it yourself” hacks, that’s the DIY hacks, you can spend just a little money in getting the right ingredients you need to put together what you need for a healthy and beautiful skin instead of giving out a huge sum to purchase one.
So here, I’ll be showing you how to make your own glow scrub from this simple ingredients.
INGREDIENTS
- Sea salt (for a less sensitive skin) or Sugar(for sensitive skins)
1 cup is okay.
- Essential oil like (almond oil, olive oil, or any essential oil of your choice).
12 drops or enough to saturate your salt or sugar quantity.
- Vitamin E
2 to 4 drops.
- Any scent supplement of your choice (which is very optional).
Just enough drops to your taste.
METHOD
Note that if you have a very soft and sensitive skin, then you might just have to stick to using sugar instead of the sea salt. And if not, use the sea salt.
- Pour your salt or sugar into a clean bowl.
- Add the drops of your essential oil and start mixing.
- Add your vitamin E and mix
- Add your scent supplement and mix
By now it will be in a moist form.
Fill it into an airtight container and keep ready for use.
HOW IT’S USED.
Now before use, make sure to soak or moist your whole body with water, then get the amount of scrub you need into your palm and start scrubbing all over your body. Keep scrubbing till the particles are dissolved and you feel a smoother skin.
Now you can rinse it off and use your soap to finish bathing.
Do this 3 times a week as it is expected to exfoliate atleast thrice a week.
So try this and give your skin a more radiating look at a more affordable and easy way.
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