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Reactions as man stops paying daughter’s fees over washing of dishes

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A Nigerian man identified as Dr. Olusesan has taken to his Twitter account to reveal how a Nigerian father reportedly stopped paying school fees for his daughter who schools in the United Kingdom after she asked him to do his dishes after meals.

Dr. Olusesan in a Twitter thread wrote a really long post about Feminism in a post he titled “REAL MEN DON’T DO DISHES”.

REAL MEN DONT DO DISHES

I was in Nairobi one time and my woman was calling that she’s in the middle of Ikeja, that d car won’t start, “as if i be mechanik.” Men have been fixing flat tyre for adult women since days of John the Baptist and we didn’t come to twitter to complain.

Feminists on twitter, but “eko n wole, ewe n jade.” Come see me, when a lady who just married a politician as fourth wife, asked ladies at her forum not to marry. “Aye nse iru e.” (Linda Ikeji et al, 2018). Aunties, let women who still want men who cant wash plate do so in peace. Many discourses here about cooking for a man, washing his clothes and cleaning after him are over dramatized and often played out of touch of reality.

That’s not how it works in a properly constituted relationship. No man is a man, that cant make food or can’t keep basic hygiene. Babe, its romantic when your car breakdown on d road, and your man brings his car, so that u can meet your hairdresser’s appointment, while he gladly assumes responsibility for the car you abandoned.

Dont be unfortunate by asking such a man to go do dishes, on his return home. Some women can’t locate d engine oil dipstick of d car they drive. No thanks to the loving men. A man jokingly said his wife hasn’t bought 1 liter of gasoline in their 15yrs of marriage.

When she sees her car doesn’t have fuel, she’ll abandon it to drive his, until he fuels hers. For context, life wasn’t like this, until Yahoo-girls started dating Yahoo-boys.

Though, there are domestically irresponsible soccer buffs who work in banks too. In a relationship partnership, it shouldn’t matter who does what, when the usual party has exerted him/herself more.

Down d road, doing dishes should become a trivial duty, as men pick up more burden to provide for the family. Except where the woman is over-laboured, excusing a man from chores is a courtesy and honour that will never be properly appreciated in poorly consummated relationships.

There’s a pervading apathy for women who have nice things to say about men. I also see some uneasiness in other women, when a woman openly praises her man. Twitter calls them “pick me,” if the lady is single. Female who dont have scum men are now made to feel insecure about it.

Women who enjoy a sufficiently balanced partnership in their relationships are in the majority, compared to those who dont. Ladies, please stay above the noise. Let not your voices be dwarfed by a confused minority, who often misdirect narratives of affirmative action for women.

There’s danger, daughters have begin to assimilate this toxicity. It started like a joke, when a Nigerian female student in a UK school, ask her father to wash his plates after meals, during visits. The man has stopped paying her fees, and her mother is saying “men are scum.”

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IPOB Declares May 30th As Sit-at-home Day Across The Southern East States To Honour Biafran Fallen Heroes

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The Indigenous People of Biafra has declared May 30, 2024, as a sit-at-home day across the South-East to celebrate Biafran soldiers.

The pro-Biafran group said that day is set aside annually to celebrate the men and women who died in the Biafran war between 1967 and 1970 and beyond and even until now.

This was made known in a press statement by the group’s spokesman, Emma Powerful, on Thursday, adding that every Biafran in the South-East is expected to sit at home and reflect on the war.

He cautioned South-East residents to avoid loitering about on this day, adding that those who intend to travel to and fro Biafra land must do so before the evening of May 29.

The IPOB statement also directed that all the residents of “Biafra Land” are to stay indoors from 6 am to 6 pm on May 30, 2024.

He also called on christians and traditionalists to pray to Chukwu okike abiama for the fallen heroes, And also for the independence of Biafra from Nigeria.

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Anambra State Government Arrests Man For Marrying Off His Underage Daughter

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The Anambra State Government has arrested one Uzochukwu Okoli, for marrying off his underaged daughter.

Okoli was apprehended after his daughter reported to the State Ministry of Women and Social Welfare about the alleged ill-treatment being meted out to her by her father and the man he forced her to marry.

The daughter, Chioma Okoli, who is currently 16 years old, said after the death of her mother, her father took her and her sister out of Edo state and brought them to Anambra.

She alleged that she was first forced to live with a 70-plus-year-old man at the age of 14 but after some time, she ran back to her father’s house before he finally gave her out to a 34-year-old Chinedu Nweke as husband.

Chioma who was in the company of her sister, explained that life with Chinedu has been a living hell because he allegedly beats her and sometimes pees in her mouth.

She said this act made her run away with their 9-month-old baby. Her father, Uzochukwu Okoli, on the other hand, claimed her daughter is 18 years old and, at some point, said she is 20 years old.

After he was handcuffed, Mr Okoli threatened to deal with the daughters if he made it out of prison. He also urged Chioma and her sister to pray he dies in prison because he would make life more miserable for them.

Meanwhile, the Commissioner for Women and Social Welfare, Hon Ify Obinabo, has instructed that the case be charged to court so that the girl can get justice.

Both Mr Okoli and Chinedu Nweke were arrested and will be arraigned in court.

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Nigerians Seek Woman Who Spoke Out Eloquently Against Fuel Scarcity In Viral 1994 TV Clip

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April 30th 1994, 30 Years Ago, And Till Today Nothing Has Really Changed.

Netizens have gone in search of a beautiful and well-spoken woman who spoke out against fuel scarcity 30 Years Ago.

A user on X.com, Jackie, who identifies as #JWEZEE had shared the video yesterday with the caption, “On this day April 30 1994, same day same time, only difference 30years ago.

“Nigerians in long fuel queues lamenting, 30years later they are still lamenting. And In another 30years will still lament, why? Because patterns don’t lie.”

In the video, which has since gone viral, Nigerians were seen queuing to purchase fuel and lamenting their predicament as citizens waiting in long queues with their gallons to buy fuel.

The woman passionately addressed the unfairness of soldiers skipping queues to resell fuel, highlighting a longstanding problem.

She said in part, “You have the soldiers that come, they buy petrol, they put it in jerry cans they sell it right in front of these people, it’s ridiculous.

“They get the fuel themselves, why do they have to come here, they don’t join the queue, they just buy and they sell right in front of people, it’s ridiculous. Something has to happen.”

The 30-year-old video which recently surfaced coincides with the current fuel price hike across the country.

Here is the viral video from 30 years back.

Currently, the country is facing fuel scarcity and price hike, with fuel being sold at N900 per litre in some states. This has affected the price of goods in the nation.

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