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Letter to Parents: Pedophiles Are Everywhere, Even in Some Homes
By Mmiliaku Milly
I can’t stop saying this even if some don’t want to believe this or think I’m exaggerating.
The stories I keep hearing are so traumatizing.
I’m scared to my bones.
I fear for our children.
I just saw a horrifying video I wish I can unsee.
I’m so heartbroken.
A baby girl of about 4 years old was giving an adult male blow job!
My God!
Our children are at risk of encountering these beasts at any point and anywhere, even in the home and places of worship!
Not long ago, a friend’s 7 years old daughter was nearly raped in their church rest room.
Thank God the girl screamed so loud immediately the man followed her into the toilet and brought out his penis.
The man ran away when he couldn’t make her to stop screaming, he jumped the fence and disappeared before anyone could catch him.
My friend was so traumatized for weeks.
She couldn’t believe that her baby girl she gave permission to go and pee a few minutes ago nearly got defiled within a twinkle of an eye, in the house of God!
It’s time to wake up parents! It’s high time we stopped pretending we don’t know these things happen as often as we hate to admit.
» Have you taught your children not to allow anyone touch them inappropriately and to recognise when someone is trying to get them to have inappropriate conversations or watch inappropriate contents?
» Have you taught your children not to touch others inappropriately, even if the other person encourages them to?
» Have you encouraged them to talk to you if anyone is harassing or threatening them?
» Have you made them to understand (through words and actions) that you will be there for them and that they can trust you with anything?
» How vigilant and observent are you?
Do you know that nice, generous and friendly uncle, aunt, neighbour, family friend, religious leader, preacher, domestic help or teacher may have ulterior motives and may be grooming his prey (your child) right under your nose?
» Who baths your children?
Do you know what goes on in the bathroom?
I’ve once seen a video here on Facebook where a househelp was giving and receiving ‘head’ (blow job) from a boy of about 5 years old she was bathing.
SMH
» Parents please, we need to be less trusting and pay more attention to those who come close to your kids and those we trust with our kids, even our relatives.
Most of those who molest children are well known by the children and their parents, they are hardly strangers.
They are usually people we know and trust.
A friend once told me how in her primary school days, she was repeatedly fingered by her mother’s colleagues in the office whenever she goes over there after school.
These guys shower her with praises and gifts, they carry her on their laps and when her mum isn’t looking, they slip their slimy crooked finger into her vagina.
Each guy was oblivious of the fact that the other guy does same to her.
She said she started looking forward to it at a point.
All these happened in her mum’s workplace and her mum had no clue!
It continued till she left for boarding school years later.
SMH
» Parents, do you know why your child is suddenly terrified to be left alone with that particular aunt or uncle?
This could be a clue you are ignoring.
Ask questions!
» Do you know why your child is suddenly too fond of that aunt or uncle?
» Do you know why your teenager is suddenly very rude to that particular aunt or uncle?
Ask questions!
» Do you know why your once happy and playful child has become so withdrawn and a shadow of him or herself?
Pay attention, ask questions!
Pay attention parents!
Pay attention!
Pay attention!
The signs are usually there, if only we pay closer attention and talk to our children more often.
If only we listen to our gut feelings.
» Are you among those who think sex education for kids and teenagers is a taboo and will corrupt them?
Please snap out of that ignorant mindset now and go give your children age appropriate sex education.
I know it may seem awkward at first but you have to have that conversation, and very often too.
Children need a constant reminder and follow up teachings for it to stick.
If you don’t teach them the right values, their peers and the wrong person(s) WILL teach them the wrong values.
The earlier you start age appropriate sex education with your children, the easier it gets as they grow older.
Go to Google and search for tips on age appropriate sex education.
» Contrary to the popular opinion that sex education corrupts children, it’s been proven that children who are well informed about sex will know when someone is trying to touch them inappropriately and inform you.
They are less likely to live a reckless sex life in future.
They are less likely to be perverts, rapists and child molesters.
» Many children who were molested didn’t know what was being done to them was bad until they became much older, by then they were already damaged emotionally and psychologically.
» Please parents, we need to sit up, the world is so evil.
We need to do more to protect these innocent children we brought into this world.
Feeding them, clothing them and paying their school fees are not all there is to parenting.
Parenting is serious hard work and we owe it to our children to do our very best.
Let’s stop raising children who have to recover from their terrible childhood experiences.
Lord have mercy!
Written by Mmiliaku Milly
MTN Nigeria’s Go Make A Difference (Go MAD) campaign brought its message of innovation and empowerment to Aba, the renowned hub of enterprise, on Sunday, March 23, 2025. The event, held at Sugarland, Luxury City Hotel, celebrated local creativity and resilience while encouraging Nigerians to take bold steps toward transforming their communities.
Onyinye Ikenna-Emeka, Chief Marketing Officer of MTN Nigeria had earlier the inspiration behind the Go M.A.D initiative. “The Go M.A.D. campaign is rooted in the belief that MTN data gives you the power to take on the world, to achieve the extraordinary, and to make a meaningful difference, in your community, your family, and your workplace.”
The campaign has already made stops in cities like Abuja, Enugu, Calabar, Ibadan, and Benin, showcasing changemakers who embody the spirit of progress. In his opening remarks, MacDaniels Enwemuche, Regional Manager, Sales & Trade Development at MTN Nigeria, emphasised the importance of resilience during challenging times. He stated: “MTN is here to remind us that every great achievement starts small. We’re providing a platform for Nigerians to showcase their skills and products, not just locally but globally, removing limitations and amplifying their impact.”
Describing Aba as Nigeria’s “Silicon Valley”, Enwemuche explained the need to activate this campaign in Aba, due to the city’s industrious spirit and alignment with the Go MAD philosophy: “Aba is already making a difference. Every person — doctor, teacher, shoemaker — has a role to play in our ecosystem. Do it well.”
The event featured inspiring stories from local changemakers. Like chessmaster Tunde Onakoya, the campaign’s ambassador, these stories reflected how small steps can lead to global impact. Onakoya rose from humble beginnings to become a Guinness World Record holder for the longest chess marathon. His journey exemplifies the transformative power of determination and digital connectivity.
Local talents also took centre stage in a vibrant showcase. A body painter, tailor, and mechanical engineer demonstrated their crafts live, while fashion designer Prinna Nnanna unveiled an athleisure line sewn overnight and modelled on-site.
The Icons of Impact session highlighted changemakers using MTN data to drive social change. Dr. Precious Uche, CEO of Tonatel Beauty and Spa, shared her mission to redefine beauty standards:
“My business fights bleaching and promotes ‘black is beautiful.’ MTN data has helped me spread this message across Owerri and Aba.”
Fashion entrepreneur Michael Chinedu Ogbonna, CEO of Mua Couture, discussed how digital tools have expanded his reach: “The internet has made the world a global village. I now create clothes for clients in Malaysia, the US, and Canada — all thanks to data.”
Through storytelling, cultural showcases, and real-life examples, the Go MAD Aba activation reminded attendees that even small acts of courage can spark significant change. The campaign continues to celebrate resilience and innovation across Nigeria while empowering communities with digital tools.
With upcoming activations planned for cities like Jos, Lagos, and Kano, MTN remains committed to inspiring Nigerians to make a difference, one bold step at a time.
…reaffirms MTN Nigeria’s support following ‘draw’ with Zimbabwe.
MTN Nigeria, the official telecommunications partner of the Nigerian Football Federation (NFF), has reiterated its unwavering support for the Super Eagles following their spirited draw with Zimbabwe in the World Cup qualifier match at the Godswill Akpabio Stadium in Uyo, Akwa Ibom.
Building on the momentum from their recent victory against Rwanda, MTN Nigeria had expressed strong backing for the national team ahead of the crucial fixture. Tobe Okigbo, MTN Nigeria’s Chief Corporate Services & Sustainability Officer, stated before the game, “We are confident in the team’s ability to make Nigeria proud and qualify for the World Cup.”
Despite the draw, MTN Nigeria’s CEO, Karl Toriola, maintained a positive outlook. “While tonight’s outcome wasn’t what we hoped for, we remain steadfast in our support for the Super Eagles. This result is just part of the journey towards World Cup qualification, and we believe in the team’s resilience and ability to succeed,” Toriola said.
The match showcased the Super Eagles’ grit and determination as they found their rhythm against the Zimbabwean side. Nigeria scored the first goal, demonstrating their prowess and fighting spirit, although the match ultimately ended in a draw. This result has added to the excitement of Nigeria’s path to the 2026 FIFA World Cup.
MTN Nigeria, which signed a deal with the NFF in 2021 as the Official Telecoms Partner, has been a constant pillar of support for Nigerian football for over two decades. The company’s commitment extends from grassroots to national levels, investing significantly in the development of local football.
“Our support for the Super Eagles and all national teams is part of our long-standing tradition,” Toriola added. “We are building a sustainable legacy of collaboration, growth, and development in the football space. Tonight’s result doesn’t change our belief in the team’s potential to make all Nigerians proud on the global stage. We believe in our Eagles.”
As the Super Eagles regroup and prepare for their next qualifier, MTN Nigeria has called on all Nigerians to rally behind the team. The company emphasized that this is a crucial time for unity and continued support, expressing confidence that the Super Eagles will overcome this challenge and strive towards securing a spot in the 2026 FIFA World Cup.
The Guild of Corporate Online Publishers (GOCOP) has commiserated with its member, Mr. Olatunde Abatan, publisher of Newdawn Online, over the passing of his beloved wife, Mrs. Desola Amoke Latifat Abatan (née Adewunmi).
Mrs. Abatan died on Tuesday, February 18, 2025, after a brief illness.
A press statement by the publicity secretary, GOCOP, Ogbuefi Remmy Nweke, quoted the guild leadership in a condolence message, signed by the President, Ms Maureen Chigbo and Secretary-General, Mr. Olumide Iyanda, said the loss was not only to her immediate family, but to the online publishing community.
“On behalf of the entire GOCOP family, we extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. The loss of a life partner is an indescribable pain, and we can only imagine the depth of your grief,” part of the condolence message read.
The guild prayed for the repose of her soul and asked God to grant her family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
GOCOP further assured Mr. Abatan of members’ prayers and support during this trying period.
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