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…As I drove downtown with the free-flowing traffic I couldn’t help but wonder at my good fortune.

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My job does not stuff my pockets with lots of money, but I have more than enough to get by. And, as I had just told my father-in-law (who’s a pastor) my wife is the best woman any man could ask for. Her strong religious background is ever so reflected in all her actions. She might come across as stiff, but her purity is equivalent to that of a nun, her purity is matched by her beauty, this beauty is also matched by her goodness, and her goodness is only matched by her dedication to her job.

And the financial rewards are quite impressive.

Only a few women will make that much more than their husband and still remain humble.

 

I don’t have the words to describe it.

Many men talk about how good their wives are – out of duty, or they say it just to look good. That’s not what this is. Let me try to explain it; as head of business relations for a growing company my wife travels often, but this has barely affected how she runs our home. She’s the kind of woman who keeps abreast of the going ons in her home regardless of where she is. She’s the kind of woman that wouldn’t stay a second longer than she has to in a meeting – just so she could be home with her family. I remember one time she staggered out from a gruelling 5 day conference immediately after it was officially ended, 20 minutes later a staff realized she’d left her file on the table. The staff looked around for a few minutes and couldn’t find her, only to call her phone and she answered it at the airport…about to board a flight home. That’s her level of dedication to her family.

As I drove on I couldn’t help smiling at my good fortune. I’m one lucky dude. I had just arrived Abuja an hour ago. I didn’t tell my wife that I was coming because I wanted to surprise her.

Before you start jumping to conclusions, I would like you to know that it didn’t go the way you’re thinking. I didn’t go to her hotel and find her in bed with another man. Sorry to disappoint you.

You see, we didn’t hide anything from each other. So, I had her hotel room number, her Assistant’s number, the conference location, I even had the head usher’s number in case my wife and her Assistant couldn’t answer their phones. That’s the kind of woman I married. Total trust.

I even felt a bit guilty about not telling her that I was in Abuja, but I knew she would like the surprise…and would love the distraction.

I checked the time, 2:16pm. I knew the conference would last till 4pm, so I had planned to make the acquaintance of Chief, an oil tycoon whom a friend connected me with. We had spoken on the phone and he was expecting me.

I replayed the conversation in my mind again.

The man hadn’t wanted to see me, and didn’t hide that fact. The only reason he listened to my business proposition was because my friend whom he’s quite fond of is his brother’s brother-in-law’s son. The man was brash, crude and quite vulgar on the phone. When I told him where I’ll be coming from, he preferred to talk about his escapades with girls in my town. Now, I grew up around university students, so if there’s one thing I’d mastered it’s vulgarity and how to tell realistic erotic stories.

After over an hour of trading dirty stories (trust me to make mine so extreme I could hear his quickened breathing), the man and I had become fast friends (a match made in evil-heaven), and he asked me to fly to Abuja the next day to meet with him.

He said he was glad I wasn’t a dull ‘church-boy’ like my friend, his in-law. He also said a couple of his friends were in the country, and if I were any good I could be the one showing them a good time when they come to my town. It’s not everyday that a man gets such an opportunity to swim with powerful men like that.

So, I flew to Abuja the next day. A friend of mine was generous enough to lend me his car. I planned to sleep in my wife’s hotel room, and fly back home the next day.

I didn’t think my wife would approve of this erotic approach to business with Chief. In fact, I knew she would frown and start warning me that these men would only lead me to destruction and eternal damnation. I too, didn’t approve of this method of hooking up with powerful men, but, hey, I have to pay bills.

I shook my head and brought myself back to the present. I’ll deal with my lovely wife later. Right now, I have a task ahead. If that task requires a vulgar, crude guy with little or no moral values, then that’s what I’ll be.

I followed the instructions given to me by Chief, and found his house with ease. I identified myself to the mobile policemen at the gate and was directed to park. As expected, the car park was filled with assorted exotic cars. A young man came out of the house and asked me to follow him. We walked into what I would only describe as a palace, up a flight of stairs and into a private waiting room where I was asked to “…please sit down. Chief will be with you shortly.”. Surprisingly, Chief came out in less than 5 minutes. I was impressed at the simplicity of such a powerful man. I jumped up to greet him. He wasn’t a handsome man, but he had the kind of smooth easy features that only unlimited wealth can give. He also had a beer gut. Oh my! That gut was something.

He also looked a bit tipsy, and smelled of liquor.

“Chief, good day, sir!” I said.

He said a quick “How nah?”, then gave me a look over. Taking in the slender frame, the mischievous smile on my face, he said “Bad boy. Yes, you be like person wey like f**k well well”.

I laughed my most devilish suggestive laugh, with the fake relaxed air of an accomplice. I was eager to let him know that I had flexible morals and was down for whatever. I’m a hustler, baby.

He asked if I wanted a drink, I said no, but I wouldn’t mind a massage if he had girls around. I pretended to look at him afraid and hopeful. It had the effect I wanted. The man laughed, “You’re hopeless.”. He looked like he’d just found his soulmate. He looked me straight in the eye as if he was trying to make a decision. Then he got up and asked me to follow him.

As we walked down a small hallway, he explained that his friends were around, and were being given a run for their money by one of his girls. ‘F**king machine’, he called her. This girl could take on a whole platoon and still want more.”In the past one year, do you know how many of my guys that have tried and nearly collapsed on top of her?”

He laughed.

“The girl de baaad. Anytime men start talking rubbish about how white girls are something else, I invite them to Nigeria. Just a taste of this girl the person go just quiet.”.

I laughed nervously. I didn’t plan to have sex with another woman, talk more some nymphomaniac young girl. As a matter of fact, since I married my wife I’d not been with another woman. I am pretending to be without decency, but I am NOT without decency. I am a man married to a beautiful responsible mother of two. I can’t come here and have sex with some twenty-something year old girl – in the presence of some dirty rich men. All because of money.

My God! What have I gotten myself into?

I made a quick decision. If this is what it takes to make that money, so be it. I’ll never tell my wife about this. I will make this money and spoil her silly, but I would NEVER tell her whatever I end up doing here today.

With anger now mixing with the adrenaline suddenly pumping into my veins, I knew the young nympho was in for a rough experience. She would rue the day she set eyes on me.

I walked into a dim room with Chief, my heart filled with a sexual fatalistic viciousness.

The four men in the slightly stuffy room were all naked. One was sitting down and pressing his phone, one was sitting on one side of the huge bed, one was just getting off the girl, while the other was prepping to get on her. All four of them were sweating like any middle aged man should when he’s being handled by a young nymphomaniac.

I was shocked as I recognized the man about to mount the girl as a popular politician I’d seen on TV many times. I composed myself and walked closer to the bed only to freeze again.

Lying naked on the bed with the men’s sweat glistening on her skin was my wife.

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Hamzat, Abiru To Speak on Impactful Empowerment For Nigerians At TheGazelleNews Annual Public Lecture

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TheGazelleNews, a leading online newspaper, is set to host its much-anticipated annual public lecture on Thursday, December 5, 2024, at the Radisson Blu Hotel, Isaac John Street, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos.

This year’s lecture will focus on a topic of crucial national importance: “Poverty Alleviation: Fantasies, Expectations, and Realities of People’s Empowerment.”

The event will convene distinguished speakers, thought leaders, and government officials to address the challenges and practical solutions surrounding poverty reduction and empowerment in Nigeria.

It will feature Dr. Kadri Obafemi Hamzat, Deputy Governor of Lagos State, as the Guest Speaker, who is expected to bring a wealth of experience in governance and infrastructure development to the discourse. As the Keynote Speaker, Senator Mukhail Adetokunbo Abiru, a renowned legislator and financial expert, will share valuable insights into policy-driven approaches for sustainable poverty alleviation.

A dynamic panel discussion will follow, featuring prominent personalities: Engineer (Dr.) Adekunle Olayinka, FNSE – Special Adviser on Works to the Lagos State Government; Ms. Abisola Olusanya – Commissioner for Agriculture and Food Systems, Lagos State, who will provide perspectives on the agricultural sector’s role in empowering communities; Comrade Tosin Adeyanju – Executive Secretary of the National Lottery Trust Fund (NLTF), focusing on community development through structured funding and Honorable Rasaq Ajala – Executive Chairman, Odi-Olowo/Ojuwoye LCDA, who will be contributing insights on local government initiatives.

Goodwill messages will be delivered by: the Senate Leader, Senator Micheal Opeyemi Bamidele; the Chairman of the Senate Committee on Environment, Senator Yunus Abiodun Akintunde; the Chairman of Winners Golden Group, Honourable Idowu Osuolale Obasa; and the Special Adviser to the President on Public Communications and National Orientation, Chief Sunday Dare.

The event will be graced by prominent personalities in government and public service, with Nigeria First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, CON, serving as the Special Guest of Honour; Senate President, Senator Godswill Akpabio as the Chairman of the occasion and the Lagos State Governor, Mr. Babajide Olusola Sanwo-Olu, will be the Chief Host.

The Father of the Day is seasoned politician noted for his connection with the people especially at the grassroots level, Senator Ganiyu Olanrewaju Solomon (GOS), and Mother of the Day, Her Excellency Princess Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire, reflecting her longstanding commitment to social empowerment and women’s issues and of course her role as the Senior Special Assistant to the President on Sustainable Development Goals.

In a celebration of excellence and dedication to public service, TheGazelleNews will present its prestigious Lifetime Achievement Award to Prince Tajudeen Oluyole Olusi, Chairman of the Lagos State Governance Advisory Council (GAC).

A highly respected political figure and royal prince from the Akinsemoyin ruling house of Lagos, Prince Olusi has made impactful contributions as a former Lagos City Councilor, House of Representatives member in the Second Republic, and Commissioner in Lagos State. His award highlights a career marked by unwavering dedication to Lagos and its citizens.

The day’s proceedings will be hosted by the dynamic compère duo, Gbenga Adeyinka and Feyikemi Niyi-Olayinka, who promise to guide the audience through an engaging and memorable event.

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AfriTECH 4.0: Maida, Inuwa, Adeyanju, Alakija, others Unveiled as Speakers

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The organizers of Africa Tech Alliance Forum [AfriTECH 4.0] have announced the distinguished lineup of speakers for this year’s Forum themed: “Leapfrogging Digital Transformation for Future of Africa’s Economy”.

Scheduled to hold on Thursday, November 07, 2024 at Oriental Hotels, Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria, AfriTECH 4.0 will bring together leading voices in technology, telecommunications, ecommerce, software, finance, emerging technologies and government to explore key innovations and challenges shaping Africa’s digital transformation.

AfriTECH has become one of Africa’s most anticipated technology events, and the 2024 edition will feature a stellar lineup of industry experts, innovators, and policymakers who will provide insights into how emerging technologies are propelling Africa’s digital economy.

Special Guests:

Dr. Aminu Maida, a distinguished leader in telecommunications and digital transformation, serves as the Executive Vice Chairman of the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC).

With over two decades of experience in the ICT sector, Maida has become a pivotal figure in driving Nigeria’s digital economy, overseeing regulatory frameworks and initiatives that foster innovation, investment, and inclusivity in Nigeria’s telecom industry.

Kashifu Inuwa Abdullahi, CCIE, is a transformative leader in Nigeria’s technology landscape, currently serving as the Director General of the National Information Technology Development Agency (NITDA).

Under his guidance, NITDA has driven impactful initiatives supporting Nigeria’s digital economy, fostering innovation, digital skills development, and creating an enabling environment for tech startups and entrepreneurship.

He will deliver the keynote address at AfriTECH 4.0.

Professor Ibrahim Adepoju Adeyanju is the CEO of Galaxy Backbone, a key government-owned technology and digital infrastructure company. Under his leadership, Galaxy Backbone focuses on strengthening Nigeria’s digital ecosystem by providing secure and innovative ICT infrastructure to government agencies and businesses, supporting national development and e-governance initiatives.

Biram Fall, the Regional Managing Director, QNET, a leading e-commerce-based direct selling company.

In his role, Mr. Fall oversees QNET’s operations and growth strategies across several markets, focusing on enhancing regional reach and ensuring the company aligns with local business needs.

Known for his expertise in direct-​selling and his commitment to sustainable business practices, Fall has been instrumental in expanding QNET’s footprint in Africa and other emerging mar​kets.

Ebehijie Momoh is a renowned financial services leader with over 20 years of experience in banking and payment technology, currently serving as CEO of AfrigoPay Financial Services Limited, where she leads the company’s mission to provide innovative payment solutions across Africa.

With a background in financial services and a deep understanding of digital payments, Momoh brings extensive experience to her role, focusing on transforming​ the financial landscape through accessible, secure, and efficient payment systems.

Her leadership emphasizes financial inclusion, driving AfrigoPay’s efforts to reach underserved communities and promote economic empowerment across the continent.

Dr. Muhammed Sirajo Aliyu is a visionary leader in Nigeria’s information technology sector. He is the incumbent President of the Nigeria Computer Society (NCS), the foremost association of IT professionals in Nigeria.

With an extensive background in computer science, IT governance, and digital innovation, Dr. Aliyu brings over 25 years of experience to his role, where he champions the advancement of technology and professional development within Nigeria’s IT ecosystem.

Dr. Temitope Alakija, a renowned academic and statistician, is a Senior Lecturer in the Department of Statistics at Yaba College of Technology [Yabatech] Lagos. With a deep expertise in data science, statistical analysis, and quantitative research, Dr. Alakija is dedicated to advancing the field of statistics and training future leaders in data-driven decision-making.

Holding a PhD in statistics and with numerous publications, Dr. Alakija’s research contributions have significantly influenced both academia and industry, particularly within Africa. Her commitment to academic excellence and her role in fostering a data-literate society make her a highly respected figure in the statistical community.

Adesola Akinsanya – President, Nigeria Internet Registration Association (NiRA). Akinsanya brings decades of expertise to his role, where he advocates for technological innovation, professional growth, and policy advancement in Nigeria’s IT landscape..

Engr. Gbenga Adebayo, Chairman, Association of Licensed Telecommunications Operators of Nigeria (ALTON). Engr. Adebayo is a prominent figure in Nigeria’s telecommunications industry, with over 25 years of experience in telecom and ICT. He is known for his advocacy for industry development, regulatory reform, and the provision of accessible telecommunications services across Nigeria.

Tony Izuagbe Emoekpere – President, Association of Telecommunications Companies of Nigeria (ATCON). With an extensive background in telecom management, digital strategy, and regulatory advocacy, Emoekpere is dedicated to advancing Nigeria’s telecom industry and fostering an environment that promotes innovation, investment, and inclusivity.

Key Speakers for AfriTECH 4.0:

Engineer Ikechukwu Nnamani – CEO, Digital Realty (Nigeria). In his keynote presentation at AfriTECH 4.0, Engr. Nnamani is expected to share his expertise on building resilient telecommunications infrastructure to support Africa’s digital future.

For over 16 years under his leadership the Digital Realty datacenter in Lagos is rated the most interconnected facility in the West African sub-region being the number 1 peering point for the region and boosting all submarine cables in the region, long distance providers, metro fiber providers, mobile services providers, fixed services providers, OTT providers, Internet Exchange, VAS providers, and global Tier1 service providers, amongst others.

Other outstanding personalities confirmed as speakers include – Dr. Obadare Peter Adewale, Chief Visionary Officer, Digital Encode Limited; Mr. Emmanuel Amos, Founder – Programos Foundation/InnovationBed Africa; Chukwuebuka Ume-Ezeoke, Chief Technology Officer at CED Technologies; Dr. Oluseyi Akindeinde, Founder, Hyperspace Technologies; Happiness Obioha, Managing Director, Tecom Concepts Limited; Chukwuemeka Mbaebie, Convener, Lagos Blockchain Week; Akeem Ajisafe, Managing Director, Transblue Limited; Chika Nwosu, Managing Director, PalmPay; Jude Ozinegbe, Founder/Convener at Cyberchain; Mohammed Rudman, CEO, Internet Exchange Point of Nigeria [IXPN]; Dr. Ayotunde Coker, CEO Open Access Data Centres (OADC); Kehinde Ogundare, country manager, ZOHO [Nigeria]; Ayodeji Ogunmola, Director, Products Management at Northsnow Ltd; Oluwakayode Durodola, founder, Otuntech Limited; Lovelyn Okafor, Country Head, Nigeria at Newmark; Olaniyi Ibraheem, Business Development Manager (Africa) at UBankConnect; Adedamola Bowale, Co-founder & Technical Lead at Avancee Pinnacle, and Moniade Adeniyi, Product Innovation & Business Growth Strategist, Northsnow Ltd.

Meanwhile, innovationbed Africa is set to host “Startup Showcase” at AfriTECH, a session dedicating to startup finalists for this year’s United Nations World Summit Awards. Discussants include – David-Bobola Ojoawo, the Producer for Compas.AI; Stephen Adeyemo of Expertplug; Siro Collins, CEO of Advanced Engineering Center (AEC), WSA Winner 2023; Elijah Moses, Producer for VerionX; Rasheed Aliu Producer for LOOPBOX; Musami Umar Musam, founder of RollMal; David Ezeonyekwere, the founder of CheapMarketDeal, and Sule Wisdom David, the founder of CyclexAfrica.

QNET is the gold sponsor of AfriTECH 40. Silver Sponsors – Galaxy Backbone, Digital Realty, Digital Encode Ltd. Bronze Sponsors – CED Technologies, AfriGoPay, Tecom, Northsnow UK, Hyperspace Technologies, Palmpay, OADC.

Ecosystem Partners: NCC, NITDA,, InnovationBed Africa, ALTON, ATCON, NCS, IXPN, NiRA, Lagos Blockchain Week, Newmark Group, all are supporting AfriTECH 4.0.

Media Partners include; Techeconomy, NigeriaCommunicationsWeek, ITPulse, Ravenews, TechTrends.Africa, TechBuild.Africa, GrassRoots, DigiVation Network, TechLifewithUgo, BusinessMetrics, BusinessRemarks, SwiftReporters, TechTV, Africa Hyperscalers Media, CyberEra, ITRealms, DigitalTimes, TechnologyMirror, TechandBizNews, ITNewsNigeria.

“AfriTECH 4.0 will also feature interactive panel discussions, workshops, and exhibitions that will explore other critical topics such as artificial intelligence (AI), blockchain, fintech, smart cities, and sustainable innovation”, said Chike Onwuegbuchi, co-convener of AfriTECH. “We are grateful to the sponsors and partners”.  

“Attendees will have the opportunity to engage directly with the speakers, as well as network with other industry leaders, innovators, and investors”, he added.

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Participation is free, but you are required to pre-register: https://bit.ly/3ZPdi88

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TestNigeria 3.0 Conference: Elevate Your QA Practices to Prevent Outages like CrowdStrike’s

….Sen. Salisu Shuaibu Afolabi, Chairman of the Senate Committee on ICT & Cybercrime, who will declare the conference open

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The Nigerian Software Testing Qualifications Board (NGSTQB) has announced plans for the TestNigeria 3.0 Conference, set to take place on September 26, 2024, at the prestigious Radisson Blu Hotel in Ikeja GRA, Lagos, Lagos State.

With the compelling theme “Security in the Spotlight: Safeguarding Digital Frontiers through QA,” the conference aims to address the critical role of quality assurance (QA) in enhancing the security of digital ecosystems.

Why Attend TestNigeria 3.0?

Speaking ahead of the event, Mr Boye Dare, president of NGSTQB, said that the recent CrowdStrike incident, where a defect caused widespread disruptions for banks, hospitals, and airlines, underscores the urgent need for rigorous QA processes.

“Millions of PCs displayed ‘blue screens of death,’ highlighting the essential role of comprehensive testing.

“CrowdStrike has since committed to enhancing their software testing protocols, improving error handling, and adopting staggered deployments to prevent future issues”.

Mr. Dare said that TestNigeria 3.0 will provide attendees with the insights and tools to prevent similar disruptions in their own organisations.

Key Benefits of Attending:

  • Learning from CrowdStrike’s Experience: Gain valuable insights into preventing large-scale outages. Understand the importance of thorough testing, robust error handling, and strategic deployment to safeguard your organisation against similar issues.
  • Expert-Led Sessions and Panels: Engage with industry leaders and experts in software testing and security. Participate in discussions covering the latest advancements, strategies, and technologies to enhance your QA processes.
  • Networking Opportunities: Connect with professionals across various sectors. Exchange ideas, share experiences, and build collaborations that can drive innovation and improvement in your QA practices.
  • Cutting-Edge Trends and Innovations: Stay updated on the latest trends and technologies in software testing. Learn how to integrate security into your QA processes to protect your digital frontiers and ensure the resilience of your software systems.
  • Professional Development: Benefit from the expertise of NGSTQB, a leading organisation dedicated to promoting excellence in software testing in Nigeria. Discover how the Test Maturity Model integration (TMMi) can aid in test process improvement and compliance.

Conference Highlights:

  • Elevating Security Consciousness in QA Practices: Prioritise security at every stage of the software development lifecycle to proactively identify and mitigate risks.
  • Integrating Security Testing into QA Processes: Incorporate methodologies like penetration testing, vulnerability assessment, and code review into your QA processes to address security weaknesses before they can be exploited.
  • Collaboration and Knowledge Sharing: Foster collaboration among QA professionals, cybersecurity experts, and industry stakeholders to collectively tackle evolving security challenges.
  • Regulatory Compliance and Governance: Align QA processes with regulatory mandates such as NDPR, GDPR, HIPAA, PCI DSS, and ISO/IEC 27001 to demonstrate commitment to safeguarding sensitive data and protecting privacy rights.
  • Empowering Stakeholders through Education and Training: Equip QA professionals with the necessary knowledge and skills to navigate the complex landscape of security and QA through continuous learning and professional development initiatives.

Special Guest of Honour:

“We are honoured to welcome Sen. Salisu Shuaibu Afolabi, Chairman of the Senate Committee on ICT & Cybercrime, who will declare the conference open. We will also welcome Hon. Adedeji Stanley Olajide, the Chairman House Committee for ICT and Cybersecurity who will deliver the Keynote Address.

“The presence of these great lawmakers underscores the importance of this event and the critical role of QA in national cyber resilience”, he said.

About NGSTQB:

The Nigerian Software Testing Qualifications Board (NGSTQB) is dedicated to promoting excellence in software testing and quality assurance in Nigeria. As a member of the International Software Testing Qualifications Board (ISTQB®) and the local chapter for The TMMi Foundation, NGSTQB strives to enhance professional standards and practices in software testing through certification, education, and collaboration.

For more information and to register for the conference, please visit https://www.ngstqb.ng/conference

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