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…As I drove downtown with the free-flowing traffic I couldn’t help but wonder at my good fortune.

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My job does not stuff my pockets with lots of money, but I have more than enough to get by. And, as I had just told my father-in-law (who’s a pastor) my wife is the best woman any man could ask for. Her strong religious background is ever so reflected in all her actions. She might come across as stiff, but her purity is equivalent to that of a nun, her purity is matched by her beauty, this beauty is also matched by her goodness, and her goodness is only matched by her dedication to her job.

And the financial rewards are quite impressive.

Only a few women will make that much more than their husband and still remain humble.

 

I don’t have the words to describe it.

Many men talk about how good their wives are – out of duty, or they say it just to look good. That’s not what this is. Let me try to explain it; as head of business relations for a growing company my wife travels often, but this has barely affected how she runs our home. She’s the kind of woman who keeps abreast of the going ons in her home regardless of where she is. She’s the kind of woman that wouldn’t stay a second longer than she has to in a meeting – just so she could be home with her family. I remember one time she staggered out from a gruelling 5 day conference immediately after it was officially ended, 20 minutes later a staff realized she’d left her file on the table. The staff looked around for a few minutes and couldn’t find her, only to call her phone and she answered it at the airport…about to board a flight home. That’s her level of dedication to her family.

As I drove on I couldn’t help smiling at my good fortune. I’m one lucky dude. I had just arrived Abuja an hour ago. I didn’t tell my wife that I was coming because I wanted to surprise her.

Before you start jumping to conclusions, I would like you to know that it didn’t go the way you’re thinking. I didn’t go to her hotel and find her in bed with another man. Sorry to disappoint you.

You see, we didn’t hide anything from each other. So, I had her hotel room number, her Assistant’s number, the conference location, I even had the head usher’s number in case my wife and her Assistant couldn’t answer their phones. That’s the kind of woman I married. Total trust.

I even felt a bit guilty about not telling her that I was in Abuja, but I knew she would like the surprise…and would love the distraction.

I checked the time, 2:16pm. I knew the conference would last till 4pm, so I had planned to make the acquaintance of Chief, an oil tycoon whom a friend connected me with. We had spoken on the phone and he was expecting me.

I replayed the conversation in my mind again.

The man hadn’t wanted to see me, and didn’t hide that fact. The only reason he listened to my business proposition was because my friend whom he’s quite fond of is his brother’s brother-in-law’s son. The man was brash, crude and quite vulgar on the phone. When I told him where I’ll be coming from, he preferred to talk about his escapades with girls in my town. Now, I grew up around university students, so if there’s one thing I’d mastered it’s vulgarity and how to tell realistic erotic stories.

After over an hour of trading dirty stories (trust me to make mine so extreme I could hear his quickened breathing), the man and I had become fast friends (a match made in evil-heaven), and he asked me to fly to Abuja the next day to meet with him.

He said he was glad I wasn’t a dull ‘church-boy’ like my friend, his in-law. He also said a couple of his friends were in the country, and if I were any good I could be the one showing them a good time when they come to my town. It’s not everyday that a man gets such an opportunity to swim with powerful men like that.

So, I flew to Abuja the next day. A friend of mine was generous enough to lend me his car. I planned to sleep in my wife’s hotel room, and fly back home the next day.

I didn’t think my wife would approve of this erotic approach to business with Chief. In fact, I knew she would frown and start warning me that these men would only lead me to destruction and eternal damnation. I too, didn’t approve of this method of hooking up with powerful men, but, hey, I have to pay bills.

I shook my head and brought myself back to the present. I’ll deal with my lovely wife later. Right now, I have a task ahead. If that task requires a vulgar, crude guy with little or no moral values, then that’s what I’ll be.

I followed the instructions given to me by Chief, and found his house with ease. I identified myself to the mobile policemen at the gate and was directed to park. As expected, the car park was filled with assorted exotic cars. A young man came out of the house and asked me to follow him. We walked into what I would only describe as a palace, up a flight of stairs and into a private waiting room where I was asked to “…please sit down. Chief will be with you shortly.”. Surprisingly, Chief came out in less than 5 minutes. I was impressed at the simplicity of such a powerful man. I jumped up to greet him. He wasn’t a handsome man, but he had the kind of smooth easy features that only unlimited wealth can give. He also had a beer gut. Oh my! That gut was something.

He also looked a bit tipsy, and smelled of liquor.

“Chief, good day, sir!” I said.

He said a quick “How nah?”, then gave me a look over. Taking in the slender frame, the mischievous smile on my face, he said “Bad boy. Yes, you be like person wey like f**k well well”.

I laughed my most devilish suggestive laugh, with the fake relaxed air of an accomplice. I was eager to let him know that I had flexible morals and was down for whatever. I’m a hustler, baby.

He asked if I wanted a drink, I said no, but I wouldn’t mind a massage if he had girls around. I pretended to look at him afraid and hopeful. It had the effect I wanted. The man laughed, “You’re hopeless.”. He looked like he’d just found his soulmate. He looked me straight in the eye as if he was trying to make a decision. Then he got up and asked me to follow him.

As we walked down a small hallway, he explained that his friends were around, and were being given a run for their money by one of his girls. ‘F**king machine’, he called her. This girl could take on a whole platoon and still want more.”In the past one year, do you know how many of my guys that have tried and nearly collapsed on top of her?”

He laughed.

“The girl de baaad. Anytime men start talking rubbish about how white girls are something else, I invite them to Nigeria. Just a taste of this girl the person go just quiet.”.

I laughed nervously. I didn’t plan to have sex with another woman, talk more some nymphomaniac young girl. As a matter of fact, since I married my wife I’d not been with another woman. I am pretending to be without decency, but I am NOT without decency. I am a man married to a beautiful responsible mother of two. I can’t come here and have sex with some twenty-something year old girl – in the presence of some dirty rich men. All because of money.

My God! What have I gotten myself into?

I made a quick decision. If this is what it takes to make that money, so be it. I’ll never tell my wife about this. I will make this money and spoil her silly, but I would NEVER tell her whatever I end up doing here today.

With anger now mixing with the adrenaline suddenly pumping into my veins, I knew the young nympho was in for a rough experience. She would rue the day she set eyes on me.

I walked into a dim room with Chief, my heart filled with a sexual fatalistic viciousness.

The four men in the slightly stuffy room were all naked. One was sitting down and pressing his phone, one was sitting on one side of the huge bed, one was just getting off the girl, while the other was prepping to get on her. All four of them were sweating like any middle aged man should when he’s being handled by a young nymphomaniac.

I was shocked as I recognized the man about to mount the girl as a popular politician I’d seen on TV many times. I composed myself and walked closer to the bed only to freeze again.

Lying naked on the bed with the men’s sweat glistening on her skin was my wife.

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Stakeholders Head to Enugu for first Southeast Educators Conference

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Stakeholders in the education circle are warming up for the maiden edition of Southeast Educators’ Conference 2024(SEEC’24).

The two-day SEEC’24 scheduled to hold 18th & 19th, April 2024 at Nike Lake Resort, Enugu under theme: Future-‘Focused Learning – Igniting the Competitive Edge’ promises to host key players in the education sector with a potential attendance of over 500 delegates.

The conference will feature a diverse lineup of speakers, covering topics ranging from holistic learning approaches to cutting-edge technology integration.

Speaking ahead of the conference, Mrs Doris Chinedu-Okoro, CEO, Evergreen Group, said SEEC’24 is the first of its kind in the Southeast region, presenting a historic opportunity for stakeholders to pioneer positive change in the local education sector.

“It brings together diverse perspectives and innovative ideas,fostering collaboration and networking among educators and stakeholders.

Hundreds of delegates will be in attendance.

“SEEC’24 is dedicated to exploring transformative practices, emphasising holistic learning, technology integration, global citizenship, life-long learning, and community engagement”, she said.

Mr. Osita Chidioka, the former Nigeria’s Minister of Aviation, who recently launched an online mentorship and leadership programme for Nigerian youths named Mekaria Mentorship Programme (MMP) Foundation Course, will deliver the keynote at SEEC’24.

Prof. Pieter Verdegem; Dr. Joy Isa, Mrs. Bukola Adewuiyi, Lady Uju Dike, Fr. John Njorteah, Alex Onyia, Rotimi Eyitayo, Rhoda Odigboh, Elfrida Diete-Spiff Omole, Dr. ChibuezeLawrence Ofobuike, Ify Obidi-Essien, Dr. Abimbola Ogundere, Angelina Ikeako, Odetola Ebenezer Israel and OgochukwuOnyia, are some of the speakers lined up for the event.

The Evergreen Group CEO added that the conference thrives on a vision to create a dynamic platform that equips educators with the tools and knowledge needed to make a lasting impact on the educational landscape of South-Eastern Nigeria.

SEEC’24 is open to School Owners, Heads of Schools (Public and Private), Educational Stakeholders, Counselors, Teachers, Parents, Investors, Startups, and others in the education ecosystem.

“Participants will have the opportunity to engage in two full days of conference sessions, diving deep into the future of Education.

“There will be ample networking opportunities with school leaders from across the geopolitical zone and beyond.

“The evening Gala Night promises a delightful atmosphere for dancing, dining, wining, and fostering deeper connections in a relaxed setting”, she further explained.

Registration is N100,000 via: https://bit.ly/3uTcv9e

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PAFON: Digital Encode, Cybervergent, Payble Sign Up for Payments Forum Nigeria 1.0

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·      Experts to Discuss Trust, Security and Privacy in AI Era

Payments Forum Nigeria (PAFON), the cross-industry platform focused on addressing issues that require broad cooperation and coordination across many constituents in the payments industry, has attracted sponsorships from Digital Encode Limited, Cybervergent and Payble.  

Financial industry experts are warming up for the first edition of PAFON, scheduled to take place at Oriental Hotel, Lekki Road, Lagos on Thursday March 21, 2024, by 9am.

The Forum aims at providing an inside-look at the industry, offering perspectives from key stakeholders, including payment networks, technology innovators, leading merchants, issuers, acquirers and payment processors.

Throughout the years, the finance world has shifted into something much more than just banking and big corporations.

Speaking ahead of the star-studded PAFON 1.0, with the theme: “Payments: Trust, Security and Privacy in AI Era”, Dr. Adewale Peter Obadare, the Chief Visionary Officer [CVO], Digital Encode Limited, said that customers want to be assured that their sensitive information, such as credit card numbers and personal details, is treated with utmost care hence security has become paramount in the payments industry.

“Secure payment processing ensures that data breaches are minimized, instilling confidence in customers to keep coming back. Nigerian financial institutions reported ₦159 billion ($201.5 million) lost to fraud cases since 2020, according to the Financial Institutions Training Centre (FITC). This is what the experts must tackle and customer awareness is key too”, he said.

Based on a report by Gartner, by 2024, 40% of privacy compliance technology will rely on AI, up from 5% in 2019, and by 2025, 60% of large organizations will use at least one privacy-enhancing computation technique in analytics, business intelligence, or cloud computing, and financial services industry is no exempted.

On the other hand, Roosevelt Elias, the co-founder of Payble, described PAFON as a ‘must-attend’ Forum due to the ‘issues listed to be discussed are germane and require critical attention. For instance, building financial inclusive products requires a mix of technology and illiteracy. The industry can’t achieve this by working in silos; we just have to unite to achieve the set target on financial inclusion, particularly for the rural dwellers.

Digital Encode (a leading consulting and integration that specializes in the design, management, and security of business-critical architecture); Cybervergent (a company dedicated to helping protect business sensitive data from cyber-attacks, including customer information, financial records and intellectual property); Payble (a fintech startup that modernises local government payments such as creating citizen-centric payment experiences, delivering flexible billing and simplified rate collection, will be joined at PAFON 1.0 by Inlaks, an IT company that offers core banking, fraud management, cybersecurity, cloud, data center, enterprise risk management, amongst other industry players.

“Our goal is to enable information exchange and knowledge sharing on key industry insights issues amongst key stakeholders, with the objective of ensuring a collaborative and proactive approach to push for policies that enable growth, tackling/mitigating fraud and limiting occurrences and losses”, said Mr. Chike Onwuegbuchi, the co-founder of TechCastle Foundation, organisers of Payment Forum Nigeria (PAFON).

He said that the Forum is driven by the reasons to; “educate and inform financial service players and other stakeholders on various issues and trends (both locally and globally); proactively share data/information amongst banks, Fintechs and other service providers, to enable prompt responses to prevent and/or limit (customer-related) losses; and discuss key Payments security trends”.

“Speakers will be drawn among industry players such as banks, Fintechs, mobile money operators, blockchain experts, Cybersecurity, etc., as we expect attendees from the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN); e-Banking Heads; Chief Compliance Officers of banks in Nigeria; Chief Internal Auditors of banks in Nigeria; Office of The National Security Adviser; Switching companies; the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission; Licensed Mobile Payment Operators; Electronic Payments Providers; Information Security Experts; Consumer Protection; Financial Policy and Regulation; Information Technology; Legal Services; Banking Supervision; Corporate Communication; Shared Services Office; Blockchain Security Experts, etc”, he added.

Participation:

Participation is free; however, you are required to pre-register using the link here: https://bit.ly/4c4N19H

For sponsorship, please contact: Mr. Chike Onwuegbuchi via: 08123355522 or Peter Oluka: 08184346261 or email: [email protected].

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Digital Landscape Harmonization: Anambra’s ISPs, HEIs Invited to AFRINIC One-Day Training

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ISPs and HEIs in Anambra State

The Anambra State ICT Agency, in a strategic collaboration with the Internet Exchange Point of Nigeria (IXPN), recently, successfully organized a one-day interactive session that brought together Internet Service Providers (ISPs) and Higher Educational Institutions (HEIs), to discuss the imperativeness for interconnectivity and to lay the foundation for establishing an Internet Exchange Point in the State.

The collaborative session saw vibrant discussions and resolutions aimed at creating a more livable state and a robust economy through increased internet access and connectivity.

In furtherance of the milestone recorded with the interactive session, and in recognition of the pivotal role of ISPs and HEIs in expediting actions towards this interconnectivity, a one-day AFRINIC virtual training program has been scheduled to take place on Tuesday, 5th December by 12.00pm.

The follow-up virtual training will not only provide participants with invaluable insights, technical expertise, and practical knowledge to optimize their network infrastructures but will further yield answers to key questions posed by ISPs and HEIs.

AFRINIC, the Regional Internet Registry for Africa, is renowned for its commitment to advancing internet development across the continent. The AFRINIC virtual training therefore represents a significant stride towards realizing the goals outlined during the interactive session.

This initiative aligns perfectly with the vision of Governor Charles Chukwuma Soludo, CFR, of building a technologically advanced state, while the collaborative efforts of the Anambra State ICT Agency and the Internet Exchange Point of Nigeria (IXPN) underscores practical commitment to positioning Anambra as a digital hub, driving innovation, economic growth, and improved quality of life for its residents.

Participants can expect an interactive and immersive learning experience, equipping them with the skills necessary to navigate the dynamic landscape of internet services in the State.

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