Romance
Want a lasting marriage? Try these principles


… How to avoid adultery
BY: Ebube Okeke
Adultery is not a norm, adultery is not a must. It is a taboo, it is not acceptable. Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.
Carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in marriage not devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into the error of committing adultery.
According to marriage and family statistics, 75% of divorce in the world today occurs as a result of adultery. It has become a big issue that needs to be tackled.
So, follow these simple rules to never fall into adultery;
Never make anybody of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions: This is a tough one as modernization has made people think this is right. But when you are married, your partner should be your best friend; you should have whatever intimate conversations with them. Having a best friend of the opposite sex can be quite tempting and you should flee from it while you can
Never be with anybody of opposite sex at any time that your spouse never knows you are there; This is also linked with the fact that your partner has to be your best friend whom you can tell everything about your movements, appointments, dates etc. Telling them where you are and whom you are with goes a long way in their hearts
Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anybody. They will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you fake care and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you.
Be proud to use your wedding ring outside. Let them know you are married and proud to be. Not using your wedding ring is an invitation for the opposite sex to come around because they assume you are single and ready to mingle. Aside wearing the ring, you should also say you are married when people try to flirt. You could go as far as waving your hands at their face so they can see your ring!
Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife/ husband you visited.
Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse. AFFAIRS thrive in secrecy.
Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex. There should be somebody of your sex you can talk to. Don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.
Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return they are not Father Christmas.
Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife you don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. What you are seeing outside is just a show biz so don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.
Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted into your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.
Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other. It is only faces that are different. It is the same package.
Deal with any sexual thoughts that are not directed towards your spouse. Kill them before they kill you. Sexual errors do not begin in the bedroom, they begins in the heart.
If you are finding it difficult to deal with it, find a mature person you can confide in and let the person pray with you and counsel you. Don’t die in silence.
Before traveling, have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have sex until you come back. That decision may save your life and destiny
Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and imagine what is there. It is stupid, childish and dirty to do that. This is called lust. What is there is not different from what your spouse has. Please don’t be stupid sir.
Walk in the company with good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterer you will become adulterous.
Discuss your sexual desire with your spouse and let it be met at home. Don’t hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow. Your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.
Fill your heart with the word of God always. This will not give lust a chance in your mind.
Always count the cost of adultery. Don’t just look at the pleasure. Look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband, children, friends and above all, GOD almighty.
Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills that is in sex is just few minutes or less. It cannot be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trading eternity for few minutes, is there wisdom in that?


The Guild of Corporate Online Publishers (GOCOP) has commiserated with its member, Mr. Olatunde Abatan, publisher of Newdawn Online, over the passing of his beloved wife, Mrs. Desola Amoke Latifat Abatan (née Adewunmi).
Mrs. Abatan died on Tuesday, February 18, 2025, after a brief illness.
A press statement by the publicity secretary, GOCOP, Ogbuefi Remmy Nweke, quoted the guild leadership in a condolence message, signed by the President, Ms Maureen Chigbo and Secretary-General, Mr. Olumide Iyanda, said the loss was not only to her immediate family, but to the online publishing community.
“On behalf of the entire GOCOP family, we extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. The loss of a life partner is an indescribable pain, and we can only imagine the depth of your grief,” part of the condolence message read.
The guild prayed for the repose of her soul and asked God to grant her family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
GOCOP further assured Mr. Abatan of members’ prayers and support during this trying period.
Romance
ESET Responds to EFCC’s Arrest of 792 Cryptocurrency Fraud Suspects in Lagos


ESET, a global leader in digital security, has provided insights on the rising threat of online scams.
In a significant operation earlier in the week, Nigeria’s anti-graft agency, the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), conducted a large-scale raid on the Big Leaf Building in Lagos, identified as a key hub for fraudulent activities.
According to EFCC’s account, 792 individuals were arrested during the operation, including 148 Chinese and 40 Filipino nationals, all suspected of involvement in a global fraud network.
The suspects are alleged to have operated a complex scam ring that deceived victims through fraudulent romance offers and cryptocurrency investment schemes.
The Big Leaf Building served as the central location for a call center operation, primarily targeting individuals from the Americas and Europe.
The Nigerian accomplices-initiated contact with victims, while foreign nationals managed the deceptive schemes, coercing victims into transferring funds.
During the raid, the EFCC seized computers, mobile phones, and vehicles. Authorities are now collaborating with international law enforcement agencies to investigate potential connections to larger organized crime syndicates.
This operation represents a significant step in combatting the escalating threat of online fraud and transnational criminal activity.
In a media briefing held on Monday, December 16th, 2024, at the EFCC Lagos office, Wilson Uwujaren, the director of Public Affairs, revealed that Nigerian accomplices were recruited to target victims through phishing campaigns, utilizing platforms such as WhatsApp, Instagram, and Telegram.
Reacting to the development, Mr. Olufemi Ake, ESET’s managing director for West Africa, emphasized that fraudsters often use dating sites and social media to assume false identities, making it increasingly difficult to detect their deceptive tactics.
These criminals frequently employ psychological manipulation and advanced artificial intelligence to build trust with their victims, further complicating efforts to catch them.
Ake also noted that many of the Nigerian suspects involved in these fraudulent activities were unaware of the true identity of their employers, as they did not receive official letters of appointment or payments from corporate accounts.
This, he argued, highlights the need for employees to regularly vet their employers’ operations to avoid being ensnared in fraudulent schemes.
“As online criminals become more skilled at exploiting digital platforms, Ake advised individuals to remain cautious and informed to protect themselves from falling prey to increasingly sophisticated fraud tactics”, he said.
He recommended verifying identities through trusted channels, being skeptical of unsolicited investment opportunities, especially those involving cryptocurrencies, and ensuring that their devices are equipped with up-to-date cybersecurity applications. “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is,” Olufemi Ake concluded.


Having a healthy looking skin is a priceless thing to possess for everyone be you a male, or a female.
And scientifically it is required of us to clean our pores so that those dead cells can be removed and a more beautiful skin can be reborn.
Although so many people think that a lot of money has to be spent on actually actualizing that, well it’s not totally true.
Because with the “do it yourself” hacks, that’s the DIY hacks, you can spend just a little money in getting the right ingredients you need to put together what you need for a healthy and beautiful skin instead of giving out a huge sum to purchase one.
So here, I’ll be showing you how to make your own glow scrub from this simple ingredients.
INGREDIENTS
- Sea salt (for a less sensitive skin) or Sugar(for sensitive skins)
1 cup is okay.
- Essential oil like (almond oil, olive oil, or any essential oil of your choice).
12 drops or enough to saturate your salt or sugar quantity.
- Vitamin E
2 to 4 drops.
- Any scent supplement of your choice (which is very optional).
Just enough drops to your taste.
METHOD
Note that if you have a very soft and sensitive skin, then you might just have to stick to using sugar instead of the sea salt. And if not, use the sea salt.
- Pour your salt or sugar into a clean bowl.
- Add the drops of your essential oil and start mixing.
- Add your vitamin E and mix
- Add your scent supplement and mix
By now it will be in a moist form.
Fill it into an airtight container and keep ready for use.
HOW IT’S USED.
Now before use, make sure to soak or moist your whole body with water, then get the amount of scrub you need into your palm and start scrubbing all over your body. Keep scrubbing till the particles are dissolved and you feel a smoother skin.
Now you can rinse it off and use your soap to finish bathing.
Do this 3 times a week as it is expected to exfoliate atleast thrice a week.
So try this and give your skin a more radiating look at a more affordable and easy way.
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